He is jealous
He blames others for his faults
He blames circumstances for his problems
He demonstrates unpredictable behavior
He verbally belittles his partner
He always asks for another chance
He says he'll change
He plays on his partner's guilt/love
He is tenacious
He is closed minded
His way is the only way
He will seem charming to outsiders
He abuses his children
He regards his violent behavior as acceptable
He is angry at women
He believes in rigid gender roles