The North Carolina Department of Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention has an information section on Grants on their website.  On it, you can find funding resources, web-based resources, request a Grant Writing Help Book, and even sign up to receive weekly email updates on available grants from youth-related funding sources.
Go to Grants

Community Programs:
The United Way of Central Carolinas 2-1-1database includes over 2,300 Health and Human Service programs in Cabarrus, Mecklenburg and Union counties.  It provides links to youth resources and programs.  www.irissoft.com/uwcc
or If you live in the Charlotte-Mecklenburg area call 211.