Are you involved in an abusive relationship?
Abuse does not have to be physical. Many abusers first use mental or emotional tactics before they become physically abusive. You may be in an abusive relationship if he or she:

• Is jealous or possessive toward you.
• Tries to control you by being very bossy or demanding.
• Is violent and loses his or her temper quickly
• Pressures you sexually.
• Abuses drugs or alcohol.
• Blames you when he or she mistreats you.
• Has a history of bad relationships
• Believes men should be in control and powerful, while women should be passive and submissive.
• Your family and friends have warned you about the person or told you that they are concerned for your safety.
• You worry about how he or she will react to things you say or do.
  

The Battered Women's Shelter at 704-332-2513 has programs for adults and teens who need information or assistance.

Other Important Phone Numbers
Victim's Assistance Domestic Violence Unit :  704-336-2190
Rape Crisis:  704-375-9900
Department Of Social Services:  704-336-3150;   After hours 704-336-4035
Family Counseling:  704-332-9034
The Relatives:  704-377-0602
First Call For Help:  704-377-1100
Legal Services Of The Southern Piedmont:  704-376-1600
Crisis Assistance:  704-371-3000
Salvation Army Women's Shelter - 704-334-4731
Uptown Men's Shelter:  704-334-3187
Community Link Program of the Travelers Aid Society:  704-334-7288
A Step Up:  704-334-7288
International House:  704-333-8099
Police Department Domestic Violence Counselor:  704-336-3147 or 704-336-8969

For additional information please contact the Domestic Violence Unit at 704-336-2811. To report domestic violence in progress, call 911.